Thanksgiving day is upon us, and along with all of the food, sales, and football, one thing is generally always forgotten on this day, and that is to give thanks for what we have. On this day, I believe it is a time to be thankful for everything you have, and to ignore everything you don’t have. This day is not supposed to be a day to fantasize about what you will buy tomorrow or what you eat tonight, but it is a day to honestly be thankful for anything and everything. I am thankful for my family, even when they annoy me they are my home. I am thankful for my friends who I can speak to about things I can’t with my family. I am thankful for my health, I am thankful for my brain and mind that sometimes have an odd way of piecing together all of life’s puzzles. Even in the bad times if you look not so hard enough you can find more than 10,000 reasons to be thankful, so take the time today to be thankful and be happy, because that is what this day should be about. Happy Thanksgiving all!
A birthday is that wonderful day that comes once a year, a day that we have been conditioned to feel prideful for our successful completion of another year of life. I love birthdays, they are a day in the year in which you can make a complete stranger feel important by simply wishing them a happy birthday. Today is my birthday, and while this year has not quite lived up to my expectations, I am extremely grateful for the life that I have, and that I get to enjoy another year. Birthdays are a great time to celebrate with family and friends, but sometimes birthdays make us start thinking of the many tasks we have set for ourselves to compete by a certain age. I have to admit, I am nowhere near where I thought I would be 10 years ago, but I have experienced and grown far more than I would have ever imagined. It is useless to sit and think if the “should have beens” in life because there are too many variables to our existence, and we can not change the past. Each new year gives new chances to set new goals and complete old ones, this year I am going to make sure that I leave no stone unturned as I march on to my goals and approach my next birthday. It feels good to be a year older, I am going to relax today and prepare for the inevitable celebrations of tonight.
One of the greatest things I have attained from growing up in the Bronx is a great understanding of multiple different cultures. Since the United States is called a melting pot, New York City should be characterized as the area with the most flavor. Many people who have only seen the Bronx on television may not know what this borough is like, but I as a life long resident, can attest that the Bronx is much more diverse than what is shown on television. What I loved about growing up in the Bronx, was being able to meet and mingle with people of many different cultures and share our inherent similarities in peace. This weekend I was privileged enough to attended, and be a part of two weddings of a couple of friends that I have known for quite some time. The weddings I attended this weekend reminded of the diversity of the Bronx. One of the weddings was an Italian wedding, and the other wedding was a Dominican wedding. Both weddings had traditional American wedding elements, and both even shared some of the same rituals, but where they differed the most was the receptions. While I had a blast at each wedding, I was intrigued by how small differences in culture, can make a seemingly generic wedding much more unique. This weekend was emotional, fun, and very tiring, weddings are stressful events but overall they are probably one of the most awarding of life’s many achievements. I love a good wedding, and I am grateful that I was able to be part of two of them in one weekend, hopefully my wedding can be just as fun for the guests, and memorable for myself and my future bride.
What can I say about mothers on Mother’s Day? They are the first to carry us and protect us from harm, the ones we run to when we scrap our knee, and the women who nourish us to maturity. Across all species mothers hold an important role of making sure their children grow up with the ability to care for themselves, and they are universally loved for that. I am very thankful for my Mother, and all of the sacrifices she had to endure to be able to get me and my siblings to where we are. My mother was my first teacher, she taught me that it is not an option to quit, anything that I have or will achieve in life is due to the perseverance she helped instill in me. I would like to wish the happiest Mother’s Day to my mother and to all mothers out there, biological, adoptive, and any other, you mothers are the reason children strive to be great, and I am thankful for the contributions you have made to society. Happy Mother’s Day everyone!